I remember feeling that way. In fact,in the beginning I remember begging God to show me a videotape of my husband with the strippers because I couldn’t really believe it was true. I never saw a videotape, but I spent three years of staggered discovery til both the therapists and I thought we had an accurate picture of all he had done. At the end of those 3.5 years I learned I never had learned it all. He punked every therapist he ever saw as well a me. He won’t tell you because he gets off on the secrets. People maintain secret lives because they can, it’s a form of power and abuse. I’m sorry. In my experience, I will never know and the lies have never stopped. I’m no contact with the father of my kids, but I still occasionally have what I call the “creeping charlie experience.” It happens when I stumble on one thing and find out it is really connected to something I didn’t understand before. The lies don’t stop because thats part of the high for the abuser. I’m sorry for your pain. I know it sucks.
The Sisterhood Community is an extension of the Sisterhood of Support private forums website for partners of sex addicts.
So many women needed support for other issues and, because of financial constraints could not afford even the small monthly fee for the private forums.
Because my passion is to help women in every aspect of their journey through life I created this free website for anyone who needs support, resources, a place to share and the friendship of kindred spirits.
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