Yes. In hind site I attribute it to my process of coming out of the fog. Once they know that you know they are an addict the same tricks don’t work anymore and it causes irritablity. Imagine having a husband like mine who sucessfully lied to me daily for DECADES and then one day I didn’t believe everything he told me. Communication problems? Damn right. Just another symptom of a much deeper problem. IMO.
When a sexually addicted spouse has been successful with coverup for years or decades, it’s a rude awakening. It’s uncomfortable. In my experience, in their disturbed mind, it now needs to be your fault. You cause the addiction. You aren’t understanding. You are too demanding. They’re shocked you don’t trust them! They want want to be absolved of their guilt, and they really just want to get back to their addiction because it’s the thing that gives them comfort.
About The Sisterhood Community
The Sisterhood Community is an extension of the Sisterhood of Support private forums website for partners of sex addicts.
So many women needed support for other issues and, because of financial constraints could not afford even the small monthly fee for the private forums.
Because my passion is to help women in every aspect of their journey through life I created this free website for anyone who needs support, resources, a place to share and the friendship of kindred spirits.
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